Hey y'all!
For those that are new here, my name is Ama. Welcome to AMATALK. Have you ever felt unlucky? According to the Oxford dictionary, "unlucky" is an adjective meaning having, bringing or resulting from bad luck. Although, I've titled this blog post "unlucky in love" I actually believe that I have been extremely lucky, in fact I feel blessed that none of the partners that I've known in the past are my God given spouse, or that I have committed to them in any capacity. Because phew, that would have been a disaster to say the least but GOD loves me so much that he ended those trains to nowhere before I crashed with a non-working emergency brake.
Being single in this interim of my late 20's at times can be and feel really ghetto, but I am realizing that the peace that surpasses all understanding feels and looks way better than me standing beside or behind some idiot to say the least lol. Being an African female that is quite frankly beautiful, smart, highly educated (not to sound vain, this is self-awareness babes) and single to all the aunties and sometimes even my own mother have raised eyebrows of suspicion. I know at least 1 of y'all has gotten a phone call like this before: "oh your cousin so and so just had another baby! I just got off the phone with her mum" or better yet "oh so and so just got married/engaged. When is yours coming?"...
Pero like, what you tryna say? LOL. Please leave me alone wai... We all have different paths in life. My destiny is different from yours. In fact, my destiny is different from my own siblings. My older sister was married at my age. Shoot she was even pregnant with my nephew at this age LOL. But I am not my sister, I am me. I don't know exactly what God has planned for me but all I can do is to continue to stand on His promise for me which is found in Jeremiah 29:11 "For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." In this season of my life I am actively going to silence the noise and whenever the enemy tries to whisper lies in my ear, I have to shout out loud what God's plan is for me.
In the mean time while I wait for my time to come I am getting ready. I am making sure that I am becoming more organized by watching YouTube videos and Pinterest videos on ways to do that. (I literally go to Pinterest for everything, check out my Pins for more!) I am in therapy doing the work, healing my traumas and working on ways to become a better me, for me, for everyone. I am revamping my closet and making sure my style exudes the glory of God, ain't nothing wrong with a little bit of sexiness here and there... I am making sure that my finances are all the way together and rebuking every poverty mindset simply because yeah, NO. Lastly, I am on perfume tiktok (follow: Funmi Monet for the tea! I love her videos!) finding out what the best fragrances are to match my body's chemistry. Because God said in Genesis 27:27 "And he came near and kissed her; and he smelled the smell of her clothing, and blessed her and said: “Surely, the smell of my daughter Ama Is like the smell of a field Which the LORD has blessed."
You like what I did there? hehe. #amatip insert your name into the word of God. Angels listen to the word of God and it's commands. Purrrrrrr.
Anyway sha, lets wrap up this AMATALK. Even though you might be single for this interim of your life, dealing with heartache, a breakup or whatever the case may be, rest assured that it's ALLLLL apart of God's master plan for your life. Just chill, and remember that He has made everything beautiful in its time. Ecclesiates 3:11
Besos,
AMATALK
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